I like girls, stereotypes

Let's just start this off by saying, I like girls. Now let me tell you a little about that... (hold your horses, it's not what you think...) (Also, this is all just a general explanation, really none of it matters right now cause I am in love with the most amazing guy I have ever met and I wouldn't want anyone else!!!!!!! <3 )

So around my sophomore year in High School I faced my feelings head on and realized that I had an unmistakable attraction to girls. Same sex... yeah. And I was confused at first but not at the same time.

See, I was an internet junkie I guess you can say... I was shy in person and had a harder time making friends so I mostly just talked to other teens on the internet... Sad I know. Anyway... I met a girl that lived in my state and ended up falling for her. It confused me cause society was saying that it was wrong, but I ended up falling in love with her personality and the rest came naturally.

I then realized that I was Pansexual (a person who is attracted to personalities and not reproductive organs. Basically I like people for who they are and how we click together. Another way of looking at it is that I don't really have a type... at all.

Although I was confused at first, I am 100% clear now on what I like. I have fallen for many girls and am not afraid of what that makes me. I mean, who wouldn't love a person that is deeply in tune with their emotions, loves with all they have, is sweet and soft. I love the way girls love and it's been something that's really hard to find in a guy. Not impossible, but hard.

Now this doesn't mean I'm never sexual and do not think about that either... cause honestly, I'm a sexual person (but not like a whore lol) I am attracted to both sexes. It's really all about your body and how it feels. I mean, if you are blindfolded and someone touches you... you are going to get aroused even if you are a man and another man touches you... it's all about your body and honestly you have no way of knowing. And that's just how I love, blindfolded.

But there are more than just two types of people. Of course you have the general males and females but what about the in between? They exist and they love too. Being Pansexual it is not impossible for me to find love in a transgender or a cross dresser. I haven't but anything is possible. And I'm ok with that.

Also, you don't have to look a certain way to like girls or like guys. According to society you have to wear nothing but sweat pants, baggy clothes and cut your hair really short, not wear makeup and talk really deep to like girls. This is not true at all. I like girls and I'm one of the most girlie girls there are. I love dressing up, wearing clothes that make me feel pretty and never leave the house without makeup on.  The way you look does not dictate who you like. Sure, you might be putting your likes out there for everyone to see if you wear a sign that states you like being with girls, but you can and will also be able to meet someone if you are just wearing what you want.

See, it really doesn't matter about looks or gender. The definition of love is "a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person"... and I feel like that's all you need to know. There shouldn't be rules on how one's supposed to love. That's the way I live and that's the way I like it.